Tallula Bean

ABC, Easy as 123

2011-03-30T10:07:00.004-04:00

I've seen this swirling around in the blogosphere and was in a mood to share. Enjoy!

A. Age: 27

B. Bed size: Queen. A beautiful sleigh bed if I do say so myself.

C. Chore you dislike: Washing dishes. We don't have a dishwasher, so there always seems to be a pile in the sink. Dirty dish water is the worst.

D. Dogs: Never had one growing up, but I can't wait to add a furry friend to our family. He will be a French bulldog named Freddie Coletti, regardless of my last name change.

E. Essential start to your day: A wake-up call from N. It's our routine and I wouldn't change it for the world.

F. Favorite color: Purple

G. Gold or silver: Both please!

H. Height: 5'6"

I. Instruments you play(ed): Clarinet. I thought I was too cool for the band and stopped playing when I went to high school.

J. Job title: Account Supervisor

K. Kids: Someday!

L. Live: Boston, you're my home.

M. Mom’s name: Arleen

N. Nicknames: J, Jen and Jean :)

O. Overnight hospital stays: A few.

P. Pet peeves: People who think their time is more valuable than mine. Dishonestly.

Q. Quote from a movie: "I think I'd miss you even if we never met."

R. Righty or lefty: Lefty, like my paternal grandfather and maternal grandmother.

S. Siblings: Younger sister who has turned into a great friend.

T. Time you wake up: 6:45.

U. Underwear: Comfortable and cute.

V. Vegetables you don’t like: I like them all!

W. What makes you run late: Not being able to get out of bed, this happens way too often.

X. X-rays you’ve had: Nothing serious.

Y. Yummy food you make: Fajitas, anything sweet and N tells me a make a mean pot roast :)

Z. Zoo animal favorites: Elephants!

Ballet Woes

2011-03-28T11:53:00.002-04:00

Having spent years in ballet class, this little girl holds a special place in my heart. The video definitely added some laughter to an otherwise dull Monday.

via A Cup of Jo

Spring?

2011-03-24T09:32:00.006-04:00

Last Sunday marked the first day of Spring and I woke up to snow on my car this morning. Even though I was hoping to break out my warm weather clothes and trade my Uggs in for flip flops, I'm putting on a happy face because Spring days are right around the corner.

To brighten my mood and add some color to our living room, I went out and bought a bouquet of pink tulips and a bag of Sour Patch Kids jelly beans. The jelly beans are addictive, so I only buy them at Easter time. They are a big hit in our house.

To brighten your day, check out my cheery coffee table!

I love the crystal bowl my Nana gave me. It's too beautiful to only bring out on special occasions, so I use it as a candy dish.

Here's to hoping that Spring comes soon!

Must-Have

2011-03-23T13:48:00.005-04:00

The newest addition to my "must-have" list is a Diane von Furstenberg wrap dress. The Julian is what I consider an expensive wardrobe staple. DVF wrap dresses are timeless and can be worn to work or dressed up for a cocktail party. Who can say no to a little black dress?

I'm planning to pick up this lovely on my next shopping excursion.

If you own a DVF wrap dress, let me know if the splurge is worth it!

And the Bridesmaids Wore Aubergine...

2011-03-07T09:14:00.003-05:00

They're really wearing "plum," but doesn't aubergine sound so much better?

Sweetheart neckline, ruched, dropped-waist bodice - the Alvina Valenta dress looks absolutely stunning on them and I couldn't be happier.

Little by little, the details are falling into place for the wedding and I'm getting more excited as the days go by.

250 days to go!

Magical Gun

2011-02-18T11:19:00.003-05:00

Last weekend, N and I spent a full day registering for wedding gifts. He was a real trooper even in the 6th hour when I was second guessing my dinnerware design for the third time.

We started off the day at Crate and Barrel's Wedding Party Event. It was quite possibly the best shopping experience of my life (and I've shopped...a lot). The store was chock full of newly engaged couples and the Crate and Barrel team gave each duo a "magical gun" that allowed us to scan all the items we wanted to add to our wish list. I mean, I was living a fantasy. Oh but wait, that's not it. They also set up demo stations to show off a few key products and handed our mimosas, paninis and homemade donuts. Can you say, BEST.DAY.EVER?

We also made our way to Macy's and Pottery Barn to round out the spree. I'm really excited to add the new finds to our home and I'm looking forward to the next 9 months leading up to the wedding!

Otherwise Engaged

2011-01-04T16:26:00.005-05:00

This Christmas was very special. Not only did I spend it with family and close friends, I also received the most precious gift: a super sparkley, ridiculously beautiful, engagement ring!

The proposal was very romantic and my sweet fiancée, with the help of my sister (pictured below), arranged for both our families to celebrate with us after the big event.

N and I are absolutely over the moon and diving right into the wedding planning. Right now we're trying to nail down a venue for our 200+ guests, hello my big-fat-Italian-wedding, but we're having a blast!

I'm bubbling with happiness and can't wait to say "I do!"

Birthdays!

2010-11-09T12:13:00.007-05:00

I celebrated my 27th birthday this weekend and it was wonderful. As much as I hated the thought of creeping into my late 20's, my friends and family put in a ton of effort to make my day extra special. I'm truly blessed.

Top memories of the weekend:

Sweet cupcakes.

Spa day at Emerge.

Gift cards to my favorite stores. 1 and 2.

An (extra) chocolate covered fruit arrangement.

Dinner with N at Hamersley's.

Cards upon cards from friends and family near and far.

Drinks at Bokx and pineapple upside down shots.

Flowers from my favorite 2 year old.

Family brunch.

Two Oprah-approved pot pies.

Thanks for all the love!

I've Got the Blues

2010-10-27T16:10:00.008-04:00

N and I are going to be doing a little redecorating. Before I moved in, N painted all the walls in our place and decided that the bedroom would be blue. It's a nice paint color, but everything in our room is blue. Not only the walls, but the bedding and curtains are also the same lovely color. We have fabulous furniture and it pretty much just blends into the blue camouflage background. N did a good job of making sure everything matches, but it might be overkill.

Soooo we're updating. New paint and new bedding. Keeping in mind that we have dark mahogany colored furniture, let me know what you think of my paint and bedding picks below!

Benjamin Moore, Manchester Tan

Pottery Barn Sydney Palampore Organic Duvet Cover & Sham

Love? Hate? Let me know what you think!

Perfect Thought for Today

2010-10-21T13:15:00.003-04:00

I love this: "Live your dream, and wear your passion." Fabulous!

Via.

Traditions

2010-09-20T15:07:00.007-04:00

I grew up going to my Nana's house every Saturday for lunch. Not many people can say they see their extended family as much as I do, and for that I'm thankful and truly blessed. The tradition still lives on and not much has changed over the years.

For lunch Nana serves meatball and sausage sandwiches, along with a few other weekly staples, but even as a non meat eater, there is no better comfort food than her sauce with bread.

Early Saturday morning, Nana makes the sauce and meatballs. I'm talking early. Like before the birds are chirping. No one in their right mind is awake at that hour, so no one has her recipe. I hope to teach my children how to make her sauce one day, so a couple Saturdays ago I dragged myself out of bed (got to her place at 6am) and got the tips and tricks from the master.

It was an amazing experience, one I will remember forever. Here are a few pictures of my early morning with Nana.

Mixing the meatballs

Browning the meatballs

Nana in action

Sauce simmering before Saturday lunch!

Danny and Annie

2010-09-03T15:06:00.002-04:00

The video below brought me to tears this morning (fair warning), but I think everyone should be so lucky to have a love like Danny and Annie.

It is a MUST WATCH.

Danny & Annie from StoryCorps on Vimeo.

A big thank you to Joanna at A Cup of Jo for sharing.

Online Shopping

2010-09-02T08:52:00.008-04:00

I'm not much of an online shopper because I simply love going the mall. I like trying things on, feeling the quality of different fabrics and checking out what other people pick up that I might like too.

Jewelry shopping is a totally different story. There is no real need to "try on" jewelry, so that's why I'm all about ordering a few pieces off the site, Stella & Dot. So many beautiful options, but here are a few faves:

The Audrey Cluster Bracelet

Stella Vintage Link Bracelet - Gold

Sofia Pearl Bib Necklace

Belle Fleur Earrings

From the looks of it, it's safe to say I'm on a gold jewelry kick. My birthday is around the corner and I'd love any or all of the above :)

I'm not totally opposed to online shopping because I bought a Michael Kors down coat on Rue La La this morning - when there's a sale, there's a sale!

Photog 101

2010-08-30T13:48:00.005-04:00

To learn more about my new camera and how to take artsy pictures that I can post on Facebook (aka show off on Facebook) and share with family and friends, I signed up for a photography class at a local high school. In six sessions, I'm supposed to learn "some technical aspects and some basic photographic compositional methods." By the sounds of it, maybe I should've steered clear of the beyond beginner class.

How much fun is this picture!? Maybe I'll learn to take something like this. I'll be sure to document my progress.

J.Crew Love

2010-08-04T17:01:00.007-04:00

So once again, J.Crew has exceeded my expectations. I never check out the shoe selection when I'm in the store because I'm usually overwhelmed by the clothes and jewelry. HOWEVER, today I stopped dead in my tracks when I saw the fall shoes (these, these and these) displayed in the front of the store.

Um hello...

I love you, I want you, but I can't afford you. Fingers crossed they go on sale.

Wedding Bliss

2010-08-04T15:16:00.004-04:00

This weekend, I had the privilege of being a bridesmaid in my best friend's wedding. Let me just tell you, she was absolutely stunning. So stunning that I cried several times throughout the night because she looked that beautiful (or maybe it was because I had one too many glasses of wine during the cocktail hour, who knows). I have never seen her look so happy and I couldn't have been more thrilled to watch her marry the man of her dreams. From the gorgeous venue to the delicious food - including a make-your-own sundae bar (my personal highlight) - the night was flawless.

Love you, girl friend, he is one lucky guy!

Springstreets

2010-07-27T12:20:00.005-04:00

I just came across the most amazing gift for N. I saw it and I had to have it, I mean, he should have it. As most of our friends and family know, we are both huge Springsteen fans. Through Twitter, I learned about New York graphic designer, Dan Cassaro, and his recently released map of New Jersey. This is not just any map of Jersey. On this map, called Springstreets, all the streets, buildings, parks, etc. are named after lyrics from Springsteen songs.

Check it out!

Amazing, huh? I'm going to frame it for N, so one day we can hang it in our future "man cave" in our future house :)

Say Cheese!

2010-07-15T10:51:00.005-04:00

Last night, N surprised me with the most beautiful, hi-tech camera I've ever seen. It's a Canon EOS Rebel T1i:

Amazing right? I've been talking about getting a fancy camera FOREVER and taking a photography class. Well, I now have no excuses. Please post comments if you can recommend a really awesome photography class in the Boston area. In the meantime, I'll be snapping shots like a mad woman!

Oh, and did I mention I have the best boyfriend in the whole world!?

Karma

2010-06-02T15:28:00.005-04:00

One of my fave girlfriends was wearing the Dogeared Karma necklace when I saw her recently and I knew right away I had to have it. I ordered it that very night. It's a simple, elegant piece that is perfect to wear every day. Believe me, I've been wearing mine every day since it came in the mail!

I particularly enjoyed the sweet message that came with the necklace:

what goes around comes around...
wear your necklace as a reminder to keep
the circle positive, peaceful and loving

Thank you, Dogeared, I will be back for more!

Delicious Honest Tea

2010-05-26T17:24:00.003-04:00

While on a shopping trip to Whole Foods, my mom picked me up a bottle of Honest Mango Acai White Tea to try. I can honestly say, it was the most delicious iced tea I've ever had (pun intended). In a pinch, it's easy to turn to the likes of Arizona or the Lipton mix, but this tea did not have the overpowering sweetness that most iced teas have. How do they do it? Honest boasts that instead of accessorizing with high fructose corn syrup (so last century), they add a pinch of organic cane sugar, mangos and the superfruit acai. Refreshing and super tasty.

Thank you Honest Tea for making my new favorite drink of choice. Cheers!

Bruce and Gaga

2010-05-14T14:02:00.003-04:00

Who would've thought - Bruce Springsteen and Lady Gaga on the same stage!? Check out the amazing performance below.

Let's just say, this made my Friday!

Books Galore

2010-05-05T08:26:00.006-04:00

I've been reading up a storm. My mom has become my own personal librarian and sends along the books she thinks I'll enjoy. She's always right :)

I wrote about a couple books that I really loved a few months back, so here are a couple more to add to the list:

Shelter Me by Juliette Fay

Totally up my alley, an easy read that pulls at your heart strings. The book is about a young mother's year of heartbreak, loss and forgiveness...and help that arrives from unexpected sources. Love.it.

The Girl with the Dragon Tattoo by Stieg Larsson

I was skeptical right off the bat because the book is considered a "thriller" - not my top choice. The first 100 pages or so were difficult to get through, but I kept reading and it was definitely worth it. The Girl with the Dragon Tattoo is also the first book of a trilogy, so I'll be starting the second book of the series, The Girl Who Played with Fire, the next chance I get.

Our Story - N&J

2010-04-28T08:44:00.005-04:00

Do you remember this awesome Google commercial from the SuperBowl? In honor of N's birthday, I made him a video of our story using Google's SearchStories Video Creator.

Check it out below! It's just a snip-it of how fabulous our story really is :)

I Like Baking

2010-04-26T09:23:00.006-04:00

Wednesday is N's birthday, so I decided to bake him a special treat this weekend to celebrate. I read about a Harvard grad student's cupcake recipe site on one of my favorite blogs, A Cup of Jo, so I decided to try the coconut rum cupcakes with coconut cream cheese frosting, given N's love for coconut.

We brought them over to my parents' house last night for dessert and they were a big hit! Ribs for dinner was a big crowd-pleaser too :)

Much love to the birthday boy xoxo

In Need Of...

2010-04-08T11:10:00.006-04:00

Cute, affordable dresses for the weddings, showers and bachelorette parties I have this summer. N and I have 5 weddings coming up - 5 people! I know that will be the norm for the next few years as our friends get married, but it's a lot to take on.

I recently bought this Elie Tahari dress at Marshall's. Do you see the retail price? I bought it for $100. Score! Do you think it's too dark for summer weddings? That was my concern, but for the price, I couldn't pass it up.

I'm now on the hunt for a few more bargains for the wedding season. I'm typically drawn to strapless dresses and I really like this dress from Anthropologie.

What do you think? For $170 it's not much of a steal, but is it worth it? I still have some time to decide and for the spring dresses to go on sale.

Please share links to your favorite dresses and any helpful hints of where to go for a bargain! My wallet will thank you :)

Hola!

2010-03-16T17:08:00.009-04:00

March has been a very stressful month for me, but N and I did manage to escape for a few days to Playa del Carmen, Mexico. It was just what the doctor ordered. Below are a couple pictures from our fabulous vacation:

I'm already ready to go back!

I'm A Chocoholic

2010-02-19T11:56:00.007-05:00

Fair warning: I'm giving up chocolate for Lent. As my family and close friends know, chocolate is my favorite food group, so this will be a pretty impressive feat. When I get to the final days, I'm probably going to be suffering from serious withdrawals, so steer clear and don't even think about sipping on a delicious hot chocolate in front of me - the smell alone will do me in.

N is giving up his favorite food group too - chips! I'm very proud of him.

To celebrate our accomplishments, we will be treating eachother to some special Easter gifts. N's gift will look something like this:

My gift will be the hot chocolate souffle from La Campania in Waltham, one of my favorite restaurants of all time. I've had the dessert once, but I dream about it often. It is baked to order and requires 35 minutes of cook time. It is served with vanilla bean gelato and hot chocolate ganache. It will be WELL worth the sacrifice!

What are you giving up for Lent?

Photog

2010-02-11T10:10:00.004-05:00

I'm jealous of people with fancy cameras. I'm jealous of people who can take artsy pictures (like the one to the left). I really want to be one of those people.

I have a Sony Cyber-shot camera at the moment and I want to be inspired to use it.

I blog every once in awhile and it's rare that people post comments. I'm not sure if anyone even reads my ramblings, but if you do, and if you have any tips or tricks for taking stellar pictures, PLEASE SHARE!

Happy Monday

2010-01-25T15:49:00.003-05:00

A special woman forwarded me this quote in an email:

"May today there be peace within. May you trust that you are exactly where you are meant to be. May you not forget the infinite possibilities that are born of faith in yourself and others. May you use the gifts that you have received and pass along the love that has been given to you. May you be content with yourself just the way you are. Let this knowledge settle into your bones, and allow your soul the freedom to sing, dance, praise and love. It is there for each and every one of us."

Happy thoughts for a happy Monday.

365 Days of Bliss

2010-01-11T14:42:00.003-05:00

N and I celebrated our first anniversary this weekend! He wined and dined me at the Back Bay's new restaurant, City Table, and we spent the night at the uber classy Lenox Hotel. Both exceeded our expectations.

It was a perfect night away with my favorite guy.

My favorite part of the night: taking our dessert to go and eating in front of the fireplace in our room! Some ladies want champagne and rose petals, but I'd opt for the apple and pear crumble any day.

Special Gifts

2010-01-04T14:01:00.003-05:00

Happy New Year!

It's definitely tough to get back into the swing of things today. The last two weeks have been filled with lots of family and friend time. Egg nog drinking, movie watching and eating until I couldn't eat anymore. Perfection.

I also received a slew of fabulous gifts and I am very thankful.

But this year I bought myself the mother of all gifts. A major splurge. I bought a Gucci bag. The thing is beautiful. It should walk and talk given the hit to my bank account, but the minute I touched the leather, I couldn't resist and I broke out the debit card.

And I gave a very special gift. I made a pot roast. Correct, I don't eat meat and I made a pot roast. All for my meat-lovin bf. He died and went to heaven. The smile on his face let me know that the special dinner entree was his favorite Christmas gift of all. It's the little things in our house.

What special gift did you receive/give?

Merry Christmas

2009-12-24T11:43:00.003-05:00

Merry Christmas to you and yours!

xoxo.

A Good Read

2009-12-09T16:40:00.009-05:00

I'm very excited to announce that I have the week between Christmas and New Years off this year! In between gift returns and a much anticipated spa day, I'm looking forward to some "me time" cozied up with a good book and hot cocoa.

These are the last two books I read - and loved, loved, loved:

The Help by Kathryn Stockett

Still Alice by Lisa Genova

I highly suggest reading both.

What should be my next pick? Any and all recommendations are welcome :)

Giving Back

2009-12-04T16:02:00.004-05:00

The holiday season is here (hooray for fun cocktail parties and mistletoe)! In addition to buying gifts for the special people in my life and looking forward to receiving a few myself, I wanted to give back to the community this year.

My colleagues and I are providing gifts for underprivileged children in Boston through the Boston Cares Frosty's Friends program. With our help, a few children will have a happier holiday. It's been a rewarding experience and we had a lot of fun in the process. I got to pick out a baby doll and a Dora toy!

Do you do something special to "give back"?

Twi-hard Fan

2009-11-20T11:41:00.002-05:00

New Moon, the second movie in the Twilight series, premiered last night at midnight. I don't function on anything less than 8 hours of sleep, so I was not in attendance. However, a special Tallula Bean correspondent was at the Boston Common theatre conducting interviews with some of R-Patz's biggests fans as they waited for the flick to begin.

Feast your eyes on this Twi-hard fan:

"And I waved with my mittened hand and walked away" - amazing.

Sometimes You Just Have To Ask

2009-11-17T11:36:00.005-05:00

The holidays are quickly approaching. Scary I know. Every year I like to get started on my shopping early, but in the process, I always find a ton of things I want to buy for myself. Is it sad that I'm 26 and still make a Christmas list? I.think.not.

This year, I need a new iPod. Mine shit the bed and I really miss bringing it to the gym and using my Bose SoundDock (it is currently collecting dust on my dresser). Thank you, Nana, for crossing that one off my list.

Here comes the splurge...I fell in love with this boyfriend jacket from J.Crew. However, I would never spend the money and buy it for myself. So I let N know that this would be my perfect gift and it will be waiting under the tree for me on the 25th.

Unlike most people, I'm not into surprise gifts. If I know someone is going to buy me something, I feel I might as well tell them what I'd like and be really happy with it, rather than have to trudge back to the mall and make a return. I feel it's a win-win.

Do you agree? What is on your "wish list" this holiday season?

FAIL

2009-11-06T14:35:00.007-05:00

A coworker just sent me an email with the most hilarious Facebook FAIL - I had to share:

That's one supportive Mom.

It's My Party

2009-11-06T13:53:00.003-05:00

Today is my birthday! And it's Friday! So I guess I should celebrate...all weekend.

The weekend will be full of friends, family, margaritas, shopping and spending time with N. Oh, and maybe a cupcake or two :)

The Blind Side

2009-11-04T11:15:00.003-05:00

Please tell me you've seen the commercials for the movie, The Blind Side. It looks right up my alley and fits my movie qualifications - a heart warming, feel-good, tear-jerker (I've also added extra points for it being based on a true story.)

Check it out.

The Blind Side Trailer 2 - Watch more Movie Trailers

The one drawback: it comes out in theatres the same day as NEW MOON. For those of you not obsessed with Edward and the rest of the vamps, it's the second movie in the Twilight series.

The Blind Side's producers didn't plan that one out very well, but I still think it will hold its own with an entirely different audience.

What I Love Right Now

2009-10-19T11:05:00.003-04:00

This adorable set of vintage keys from Pottery Barn! I'm currently in decorating mode to make our place more "homey" and these will fit perfectly above the cast iron coat rack I've been eyeing for the entryway. My mom is awesome and is buying us both xo.

The keys are decorative, but also have a personal meaning - not only do I have the key to N's heart, but now I have the key to his home.

Bittersweet - But More On The Sweet Side

2009-10-16T11:23:00.004-04:00

Newsflash: I moved in with N this past weekend! Woah big move.

We packed up all my belongings in my cozy (little) apartment, loaded them into his truck, and as I was about to lock-up for the last time - I cried. Don't get me wrong, it's not because I want to stay. I've had some fabulous times on Cedar Street and I wouldn't change any of the twists and turns in my life that led me to the place I am today -I cried because it's a bittersweet feeling to move on to a new chapter in your life in such a physical way.

The minute we walked out the door, I was over it. Sometimes a girl just needs a minute.

I'm excited to be coexisting with my main man and making what was once just his home, ours :)

Another One Bites The Dust

2009-10-13T11:47:00.004-04:00

And I'm absolutely thrilled. My best friend, my forever-valentine and the one who I've spent countless hours with imagining the men of our dreams, has finally found her Mr. Right and he popped the question this weekend. The bride and groom-to-be are glowing with happiness and I was just giddy to hear the news. So excited for a year of planning and preparing for the big day!

Much love to you both xoxo.

Much Love For The Fall

2009-10-07T13:59:00.004-04:00

I love the fall in New England. Everything about it. The brisk mornings, the leaves changing color, pumpkins, apple picking, hot chocolate, oversized sweaters, Halloween, MY BIRTHDAY, Thanksgiving... the list could go on and on.

To really play up the season, I've been serving up some fall comfort foods. For example: a new dish, chicken with apple, onion and cider sauce, an oldie,but goodie, pumpkin chocolate chip bread ala the C's, and my very favorite, chicken pot pie!

I've been pretty impressed by my skills so far and I'm always looking for new recipes. If you have a great fall recipe, send it my way!

P.S. If you live in the area, hit up Honey Pot Hill Farm in Stow, MA for the apple cider donuts (the apple picking is great too) - you won't regret it.

Obsolete?

2009-09-28T10:59:00.005-04:00

When I get to work in the morning, I like to have a little "me" time before jumping into my unread emails and the to-do list of the day. So I peruse my favorite blogs to get my mind going as I slowly come to grips with being back in the cube.

Today, Whoorl wrote about this book,

and it got me thinking about the things in my life that have become obsolete and which ones I miss (will miss) and which ones that I've happily waved goodbye to.

What I'll miss:

Cassette tapes - My Born in the U.S.A. tape brought about my love for music at a young age. I'm forever thankful to whoever (probably my parents) bought it for me and let me listen to it 874503498 on repeat.
Camera film - My nana is the only person I know that still uses an old-school camera and film and I love it. There is no picking and choosing the best picture of the bunch. She prints out all the pictures she takes and if someone blinks or a couple people are cut out of a shot, the picture is what it is - and that's the beauty of it.
Cursive writing - I could never master the art of cursive writing; being a lefty, it was really hard to learn. There is something elegant about cursive writing and makes a letter that much more personal. I hope this never becomes obsolete (and letters in general for that matter).

Time to say goodbye:

Getting lost - Garmin, your GPS has made my life less stressful. Thank you. Adios map in the back seat of my car that I could never read correctly or pay attention long enough to learn.
Manual car windows - My last car had manual car windows. More times that I can count, a friend would pull up next to me at a red light and try to say hello and in order to respond, I would have to lunge across the front seat of the car and uncomfortably and embarrassingly crank the window down. I'm happy to have upgraded.
Handkerchiefs - No explanation needed.

Tell me about the things in your life that have become obsolete - for the good or the bad!

Bruce Came Back

2009-08-24T10:53:00.005-04:00

I am lucky to have a fantastic boyfriend that took me to see Springsteen at the Comcast Center on Saturday night. As I'm sure you all know, or read about back in April, I'm a Bruce fanatic and it only helps that N is too. It was my first time seeing him play at an outdoor venue and it was perfect. We tailgated a bit before the show and a nice breeze helped break the summer heat.

As always, the band was awesome and the man himself couldn't have looked better. The highlights for me were: Trapped (a new favorite), She's the One (a forever favorite) and the most beautiful love song EVER, If I Should Fall Behind.

Bruce kept the energy up with a set list that really rocked the house.

Jackson Cage

She's the One

Working on the Highway

Hungry Heart

Outlaw Pete

Badlands

Working on a Dream

Seeds

Johnny 99

Point Blank

Raise Your Hand

Burning Love

For You

Trapped

Waiting on a Sunny Day

The Promised Land

If I Should Fall Behind

Backstreets

Lonesome Day

The Rising

Born to Run

Rosalita

Detroit Medley

Hard Times (Jay Weinberg made his appearance for the encore which was stellar)

American Land

Dancing in the Dark

Born in the USA
Twist & Shout

Much different from his original list, and that much better. The show is always magical and the boys never disappoint.

Family Affair

2009-08-24T10:33:00.006-04:00

My cousin, one of my closest friends and my parter-in-crime as a child, got married last weekend (I wrote about his engagement last August). He was the first grandchild to get married and it was a really special day for the whole family. His bride and I have become friends over the years and I was honored to be included in their celebration as one of her bridesmaids.

They made a beautiful couple and the smile on my cousin's face at the altar said it all, he couldn't love her more. I wish them a lifetime of happiness and we're happy to welcome the lovely lady into our family.

Weddings and Babies Galore?

2009-08-12T09:20:00.003-04:00

Is it just me or is everyone getting engaged, getting married or popping out kids? My news feed on Facebook is cluttered with congratulatory wall posts and countless albums of wedding ceremonies and new babies - one person, who will remain nameless, jumped right over the TMI line and announced her pregnancy to the world by taking a picture of her pregnancy test and using it as her default picture. Wow. You legit peed on that stick! But who's to say, maybe I'll be that baby crazy one day.

I'm a HUGE fan of both - weddings and babies - and I can't wait to experience both. But tell me, are they both suddenly on steriods?

N and I have two weddings this weekend and they just keep on coming. We'll be busy, but they're always an awesome time. Pictures to come.

Foodies

2009-07-23T08:45:00.002-04:00

Do you tend to frequent the same restaurants? N and I always find ourselves falling back on old favorites. On Monday, we started a new tradition of trying out a new restaurant once a month. We kicked things off at Masa in Boston's South End and loved it. Our meals were devoured in no time at all and the sangria was the perfect way to end a hot summer day.

I also like to take advantage of Boston's Restaurant Week. This year, P.B.S., Frank and I have chosen to dine at The Fireplace in Brookline.

What's your favorite dinner spot in Boston? Hole-in-the-wall or upscale? Let me know, we'd love to add to our list.

Bakerella

2009-07-09T16:02:00.008-04:00

I'm a huge fan of the blog, Bakerella. If you haven't read it yet, check it out.

Most of you know I'm a fanatic about cupcakes, but this blog shares a recipe for my newest obsession - cake balls. Just brilliant. Check out the red velvet cake balls.

Or better yet, cheesecake pops! Same concept, just add a stick.

I'm whipping up a batch of my own at the end of the month with a couple girl friends. I will share pictures if they look even half as scrumptious as the ones above. Wish me luck :)

Lollipop Fingers

2009-06-26T12:21:00.004-04:00

I only get French manicures. Never a fun color, just French tips with OPI Sugar Daddy on top. Not because I'm scared of the endless wall of color choices at my nail salon, but because I have a fear that my fingers look like giant lollipops with colored nails. Long, skinny, pale fingers + bright, summery, fashion-forward color = LOLLIPOPS.

At dinner with Frank and P.B.S., I was admiring Frank's perfect pink nails, so I had to ask, "what color nail polish is that?" She let me know it was OPI Strawberry Margarita.

Yes, I'm crazy and went on the OPI site to see what it would look like with my skin tone. Doesn't look bad at all! Now, if you could just extend the length of the fingers on the digital hand we'd be in business. I've decided that I'm 25 and I'm going to embrace my lollipop fingers. I'm getting a manicure this afternoon and my mind is set on Strawberry Margarita.

Color vs. French? What is your favorite nail polish color?

Rain, Rain, Go Away

2009-06-23T14:10:00.010-04:00

Current Boston weather: nothing but rain. It has rained every day this month and it's making me downright miserable. Not to mention my strong resemblance to a drowned rat when walking to and from the train. Either way, it doesn't make me a happy camper.

My family and I are heading to Ogunquit, ME next week and all I ask for is a glimpse of sunshine. I'm pretty much begging. I don't think I can take 7 days worth of board games and chick flicks (poor Dad).

The one perk to this wet mess is it gives you a perfect reason to wear awesome rain gear (I wish I had a pair):

Happy Reading

2009-06-18T13:11:00.001-04:00

Check out my friend's blog, Fatty No Friends... It's pretty awesome.

Angels Reunite

2009-06-15T15:50:00.009-04:00

And head to NYC! I've missed the girls way too much and we had a blast. It was a whirlwind, 24 hour tour. Here are a few highlights:

Dinner at Son Cubano in the Meat Packing District (I highly recommend)
Hotel Gansevoort roof-top bar
The Brass Monkey - This was particularly awesome because it was the scene for the Bethenny/Kelly blow out on the Real Housewives
Shopping on 5th Ave
Strolling Central Park
Taste testing the City's cupcakes - Magnolia vs. Crumbs - Magnolia won.

The laughs kept on coming especially at any reference of "the diaper." Looking forward to the next road trip.

P.S. Any guy looking to pick up a girl at a bar, please don't use the line, "My friends and I would really like to talk to you, we'll be right over here, just let us know if you're interested."

Hail The Grillmasters

2009-06-03T16:55:00.005-04:00

The summer is officially in full effect now that I've had my first Boca burger of the summer. And not just my first, but in the span of two weeks, I've probably had about 8. I really can't tell you how much I love food from the grill, but to save my taste buds from hating the barbecued goodness come August, I'm taking a short, and I mean short, break from eating them. Tell a lie, I'll probably have one this weekend.

Much love to my favorite grillmaster - Dad.

If You Found A Hundred Dollar Bill On The Sidewalk...

2009-05-27T13:17:00.005-04:00

How would you spend it? There is a lot you could buy for $100, but I would do the following:

Buy this adorable dress from J.Crew - $39.99 (on sale!)

Treat the fam to an icecream at Pizzi Farm because Dad has paid one too many times (my pick: Black Raspberry Chocolate Chip frozen yogurt) - $14.00

Share an Upper Crust Garden Veggie pizza with my best girl friends accompanied by a hefty glass of chardonnay - $20.75

Rent a movie On Demand with N - $4.99

Call in sick from work and head to Good Harbor beach in Gloucester for the day - $20 to park ($25 on weekends)

I'm pretty happy with my choices and the grand total comes to... $99.73. Perfect.

For my blogger friends, please share your lists on your blogs. For my non-blogger friends, I'd love to read your lists too. Shoot me a comment with how you would blow 100 bucks if you had the chance!

The Highlight Of My Weekend

2009-05-26T12:35:00.003-04:00

Spending the day with N in the North End. Oh and a bowl of chocolate chip gelato from Caffe Vittoria.What did you do this Memorial Day weekend?

He Loves Her!

2009-05-19T13:45:00.003-04:00

I thought the Gossip Girl finale was awesome - what did you think?

I knew Chuck would finally say the 3 little words! Can't wait for next season.

Manhattans All Around

2009-05-14T12:36:00.004-04:00

A very special woman in my life passed away this morning. At 85 years-young, and weighing 80 lbs. soaking wet, she could still put away a stiff Manhattan with the best of them and was as quick-witted as they come.

I will miss you, Aunt Jo, you were a true class act. A trip to the Flying Bridge is in order for a proper toast to your fabulous life.

Love.Always.

Our Romantic Getaway

2009-05-06T09:08:00.023-04:00

I don't have much time to write about my vacation at work, but I'll sum it up in one word - FABULOUS. Here are the pictures to document just how much fun we had.

Day 2: Bahamas, Atlantis Resort & Casino.

We got really good at taking our own pictures.

My first piña colada of the trip. Could I look happier?

Next stop, the aquarium at Atlantis. The fish loved N.

Holy octopus.

Day 3: CocoCay Beach, Bahamas.

N was really excited about the BBQ for lunch.

It was really windy, so we headed back to the ship.

Before dinner. N likes these pictures (because he looks great), so I put them up. I'm not a fan, but the mudslides look delish.

Day 4: Key West, Florida.

We hit up Sloppy Joe's for a margarita (10:00am).

Even more drinks at lunch.

And the Schooner Wharf Bar did us in.

The Blackberry and a cigar - perfection.

And somehow we made it back to the ship.

THE END :)

BRUUUUUUUCE

2009-04-23T09:13:00.006-04:00

And the earth-shaking, booty-quaking, Viagra-taking, love-making, Le-gen-dary E - Street - Band were in full effect last night at the Garden and they were nothing less than amazing. Here is the set list:

Badlands

Candy's Room

Outlaw Pete

She's the One

Working on a Dream

Seeds

Johnny 99

Youngstown

Raise Your Hand

I Wanna Be Sedated

Spirit in the Night

For You

Waitin' on a Sunny Day

The Promised Land

Jungleland

Kingdom of Days

Radio Nowhere (w/ Jay Weinberg)

Lonesome Day (w/ Jay Weinberg)

The Rising (w/ Jay Weinberg)

Born to Run (w/ Jay Weinberg)

* * *

Hard Times

Thunder Road

Land of Hope and Dreams

So Young and in Love (w/ Dropkick Murphys' Tim Brennan)

American Land (w/ Dropkick Murphys, Jay Weinberg)

Glory Days (w/ Dropkick Murphys, Jay Weinberg)

Seven Nights to Rock

The highlights for me were (in no particular order): For You, She's the One, Radio Nowhere, guitarist Tim Brennan from the Dropkick Murphys proposing to his girlfriend on stage, and Bruce's tight jeans. What can I say, the man is dead sexy. If you were at the show, you'd have to agree that Max's son, Jay, truly kicked it up a notch when he took the place of his old man behind the drums. Seriously, he's 18? I wish I had that much talent.

It was a special night for me, not only sharing the experience with N (our first Springsteen show as a couple), but my mom, uncle, sister and nana were in the house. Yes, my 77 year-old nana was rockin' out to Glory Days close to midnight.

To the BOSS and the boys,

Thank you for making last night as magical as ever. You stroke the fire in my belly too.

xoxo,

Bean

Layoffs

2009-04-17T15:46:00.003-04:00

This time I wasn't on the receiving end, but it doesn't make it any easier. My closest friend at work got laid off and I'm pretty miserable right about now. My heart is breaking for the people that were let go because I know what they're going through. Been there and it's just plain AWFUL.

Drinks and chocolate always help. Atleast it's a long weekend.

Today Is Just One Of Those Days...

2009-03-31T16:14:00.004-04:00

And I'm counting down the minutes until I'm on a cruise with N to the Bahamas and Key West. 18,720 minutes to be exact.

I've heard it's pretty warm outside today in Boston, but I haven't moved from my cube, so I wouldn't know (insert extremely crabby attitude). Hence why my scheduled vacation days can't come soon enough.

I won't hate spending a few days in tropical paradise

I Love You More Than...

2009-03-24T17:07:00.004-04:00

My friend over at PR Moonlighting recently blogged about her two year anniversary with her boyfriend (congrats!) and how she used the site I Love You More Than Blank to let him know just how much she loves him. I did this for N a couple weeks back. Here is the heart I made for him:

Now I will explain why. Freddie is not real. Freddie is the miniature bulldog N and I plan to get at some point down the road. I have my heart set on a dog sooner than later, so I talk about him like he already lives with me. "Freddie would love going for a walk here..." - you get the picture. I talk about this imaginary dog so much that N feels like he will be kicked to the curb once he's really mine. I assured him he will always be #1, but Freddie comes a close second.

I've Given In To The Hype

2009-03-17T08:27:00.003-04:00

Like most pubescent 15 year old girls, I've become obsessed with the book series, Twilight. Yes, I'm 25. I'm only half way through the first book and I'm undoubtedly in love with Edward Cullen - who just so happens to be a vampire. You would assume it is sci-fi, which is definitely not my cup-of-tea, but it really is a captivating love story. I can't wait to finish the book and watch the movie.

Has anyone else read the series/watched the movie?

Amish Friendship Bread

2009-03-05T14:59:00.005-05:00

Has anyone ever tried Amish Friendship Bread? Ah-ma-zing. But honestly the weirdest concept ever.

Last week, in preparation for my trip to Florida, I went over my parents' house to pick up a suitcase. On the kitchen counter was a giant Ziploc bag of mush. It looked like a cross between baby cereal and vanilla yogurt - same color, same consistency. I was rushing around to get back to my apartment and pack, so I forgot to ask my Mom what sort of science project she was concocting. Not to mention this bag stuck out like a sore thumb in my uber-clean house.

Fast forward to this week. I came back from Florida on Monday and I went to visit my family for dinner to fill them in on my fabulous vacation. After dinner, Mom has some sort of bread on the table for dessert. Not a bread I'm familiar with. Mom's specialties are: blueberry, pumpkin, even zucchini, but this bread was foreign. I was skeptical, but I am never one to pass up any kind of dessert. It was UNBELIEVABLE and it was made from the bag of mush. I tried describing it to N last night and I decided it is like pound cake/coffee cake. Here's the kicker, it takes 10 days to make - in a bag.

It is somewhat like a chain letter. You make the bread, then you give a "starter" bag of batter to 3 friends, so they can make their own. Mom gave me a bag and I'm on day 3. I don't have many friends that bake, so I'll most likely give a bag to N's mom, my married friend (who is a superb baker - pumpkin chocolate chip bread) and freeze the last bag for a later date (or let me know if you want it).

Has anyone ever heard of this/made one?

Music

2009-02-18T08:28:00.001-05:00

A few months back I shared the songs that typically put me in a great mood - some have been top picks forever, some just the flavor of the day. Now I'm in a rut and I can't seem to find any new artists/songs that I really like. If you know me, you know I'm a big Springsteen fan. Well, I was pretty excited for the January 27 release of his new album, Working on a Dream. Needless to say, "Queen of the Supermarket" didn't rock my socks off.

Does anyone have new music to share? All genres are welcome.

The Morning Commute

2009-02-06T12:08:00.010-05:00

If you read this blog, I'm sure you have an idea of how much I hate taking public transportation to work. I went to my parents' house for dinner on Wednesday and I tried painting the picture of the morning commute. I've also tried describing it to N on several occassions and I guess you can't fully grasp the concept until it becomes part of your daily routine.

Here it goes.

First, the train has a distinct odor. Not a nice odor. The odor of burning brake pads and sweat. Boston temps are usually in the teens during the Winter, so the heat on the train is blasting to keep passengers warm. This is awesome ONLY for the few minutes it takes to defrost because on most days when people are dripping wet from snow or rain, the heat/wet combo makes for for a swampy mess. Not to mention I'm usually bundled up with a hat, scarf, gloves and the shiniest, puffiest jacket you will ever see - this does not equal hottness.

Now, finding a seat. It is every man for himself. During dinner, my mom asked, "do men usually give up their seats for women or the elderly," HELL NO, MOM if you find a seat you hold on to it for dear life. The trains are set up to have seating for two people on one side of the aisle and seating for three people on the other side. In my opinion the two-person seat is ideal because there is less of a chance to touch the other person. This is a big deal. Once you spot a seat and make the big attempt to sit down, you have to slide, ever so slightly into the seat, careful not to touch the person beside you. If you do, even by accident, there is no doubt that person will give you a dirty look for invading their personal space.

People do not speak on the train. Even if you are mid-conversation with someone you know waiting at the T stop (this has happened to me on several occassions), the conversation MUST be abruptly cut short because the glares you will get if you continue to chit-chat on the train will most likely be fatal. Same goes with talking on a cell phone. I always keep my phone on vibrate, but if you don't, you better pray it doesn't ring on the train. For the poor soul fumbling to find a ringing cell phone in his pocket, briefcase or at the bottom of a backpack, I feel for you. You will be the brunt of passengers' gasps as this is the mac-daddy of commuter no-nos. N doesn't understand the cell phone rule because he feels this would be a great opportunity for people to be "sealing deals and making moves." I agree, but I'm not going to be the first one to break from the norm.

A day in the life...oh how glamorous!

Dreams

2009-02-04T09:57:00.002-05:00

I've been waking up crying - a lot. Not just a tear running down my face, but sobs. I keep telling myself it is because my body wants to wake me up from a nightmare (not sure why I'd be having nightmares), but today I did a little research and I've decided it is a problem.

DreamMoods.com

Cry

"To wake up crying, represents some suppressed hurt or previous trauma that is coming up to the surface. You can no longer suppress these emotions. They need to be dealt with head on."

Interesting, eh? I can't say that I was all that shocked by the explanation, but I wish it also included something like this, "Jena, this is how you should deal with your suppressed hurt..." because at this point I'm at a serious loss.

25 Things About ME

2009-01-29T14:22:00.003-05:00

I just filled out a time-consuming note on Facebook that lists 25 things you should know about me. I decided I would post it here to share the wealth. Let me know if you can think of any other fun facts.

#1 I love the Real Housewives and Top Chef
#2 I'm 25 and sleep with a teddy bear named Arnie
#3 I relate to Springsteen's Secret Garden
#4 I think that wine can solve most problems
#5 I have an amazing relationship with my family
#6 I truly believe purchasing a "break-up bag" can help heal a broken heart
#7 I have my own blog
#8 I could eat Mexican food every day
#9 I despise public transportation
#10 I like flannel pajama sets
#11 I don't eat red meat
#12 My proudest moment was being asked to be a Godmother
#13 I believe in karma
#14 Sometimes I'm referred to as "Jean"
#15 As noted in #6, shopping is my favorite form of therapy
#16 I go to the gym to relieve stress
#17 I don't drink caffeine
#18 Chocolate is my weakness
#19 I have a great group of true friends
#20 I would drive to Hamden, CT right now for the Corner Deli
#21 I have the world’s worst sense of direction
#22 I’m left-handed
#23 I dream of having a dog named Freddie Coletti
#24 I look forward to vacations on the Vineyard
#25 I’d like to retire

Enjoying My Days

2009-01-22T10:13:00.002-05:00

After a great night out with two of my favorite people, my Pop.Bop.Shop gal-pal made a point during our gab session that really hit home with me - she schedules "me-time" each week, so the craziness of life doesn't consume her.

For most people, the work week consists of: wake up, go to work, go to bed, repeat. In all honestly, I'm typically one of those people for the simple fact that I get super tired if I don't get 8 hours of sleep - MINIMUM. However, I'm turning over a new leaf (add this to my list of New Year resolutions) - I plan to do something I enjoy 3 nights during the work week. This could include: going out to dinner, getting drinks (a personal favorite), spending time with N, playing Sequence, visiting my family or just watching a movie.

P.B.S. goes out every night and does it with ease. This scares me a bit because I would be a zombie at work the next day, but she reassured me that it's doable and well worth it.

I don't want to live to work, I want to work to live, so wish me luck l.i.v.i.n.g. it up!

Made My Monday

2009-01-06T08:48:00.003-05:00

PLEASE TELL ME YOU WATCHED!

Resolutions

2009-01-02T13:23:00.003-05:00

So now that my hangover has worn off, I will try to list my New Year's resolutions:

Determine who matters and who doesn't
Become a recessionista
Perfect a signature dish
Start sleeping through the night and take more vitamins
Try not to mix alcohol - always ends poorly
Read - the Metro no longer counts
Take things less seriously

And that's all I can think of right now. What are your resolutions?

Heyyy 2009

2008-12-23T12:56:00.002-05:00

HURRY UP AND GET HERE! Let's just say that 2008 was a big flop in my book. I was confident that it was bound to get better and the glimmers of hope faded fast. Oh sure, there were highlights, but as a whole, 2008 = the worst.

I'm excited for a new year and a new start.

In a Nutshell

2008-12-15T11:42:00.002-05:00

This is what my life consists of lately:

6:00am - wake up, get ready
7:20am - drive to train station
7:42am - get on the train after waiting in the freezing cold for approx. 15 minutes (some days in the rain - let me tell you, I will be investing in an umbrella)
8:10am - get to new job, attempt the Metro crossword puzzle
8:30am - start the work day
5:41pm - wish I was getting on the train
6:38pm - pray I make the train (If not, I call Dad or the boy and hope I can score a ride)
Anytime between 7pm and 9pm - GET HOME :)

I then eat a quick dinner and pass out.

The things I miss:

A 5-minute commute (driving)
The gym
My RPG friends
Sleeping through the night
Seeing the boy at normal hours of the day

My hope is this is just a transition and I will fall into a routine sooner than later. Fingers crossed.

MIA

2008-12-01T09:36:00.002-05:00

I know, I know...I've been MIA. BUT I'm back in action. I have a new job and new outlook on life. I'll be back shortly with an update.

My New Pad

2008-10-20T11:32:00.007-04:00

As promised, pictures! Still a work in progress, but you can get an idea of what it looks like.

Bedroom:

Bathroom:

Living room:
Kitchen:

Moved!

2008-10-16T09:34:00.003-04:00

I am living on my own. I love the feeling of independence, but I've had a hard time falling asleep in a new place. It's going to take some time to adjust to the noises of the apartment and the neighbors upstairs. I swear they wear bricks on their shoes when they walk around up there. I have yet to meet any of them, but hopefully they are good people. I've had several guests visit the past couple days and each has brought wine! Clearly they know me. Pictures of the place will be up soon.

For all my wine, I'm going to need to invest in one of these :)

Moving!

2008-10-07T15:35:00.002-04:00

I am moving into an apartment a week from tomorrow. Yikes! Just me, myself and I living on the south-side of Waltham. This will be the first time I live on my own and I couldn't be more excited.

The one thing I wasn't expecting was how much you actually need in an apartment if you are supplying everything. On a trip to ikea with SD on Saturday, I was on a mission for a spatula. A SPATULA! Seriously, is this what my life has come to? I miss the missions of cute shoes and must-have bags. But, I will have independence and that is priceless.

The Newlyweds

2008-09-30T10:02:00.003-04:00

I always knew she would be a beautiful bride, but she truly took our breath away. And I'd have to say that the bridal party wasn't that bad either :) The newlyweds make a gorgeous couple and I wish them a lifetime of happiness.

The wedding was an absolute blast. The food, the music, WENKER - and let's not forget the after party. Can't wait to see the pictures from Hawaii.

The Big Day Is Upon Us!

2008-09-24T10:28:00.006-04:00

My best friend is getting married on Friday. Two days. Woah.

There are 4 of us that have been through it all together, the highs and the lows and everything in between, and I am thankful for each of them everyday.

Now, the little blonde has found the man of her dreams and they are about to start their life together - and I couldn't be happier. They make an amazing pair and I wish them only the VERY BEST.

I love you the most xoxo

Transitions

2008-09-18T16:05:00.000-04:00

I'm at a definite transition in my life - in a lot of ways. I'm trying to use the next few months to figure out what it is that I want and need out of this world and figure out who and what will make that a reality.

The cliché is to follow your heart, but life is not that easy. A good friend and one of the smartest women I know recently gave me her words of wisdom: "To know something is right, deep down inside - mind, body and soul must be in unison."

I'm working toward that goal and I truly believe that things will all work out just as they should.

Horoscope

2008-09-12T11:01:00.000-04:00

SCORPIO: It seems like lately there's always someone who thinks he or she knows better than you do about what you should do next. It's unlikely, though not impossible, that this person will give you advice you can actually act on to win the prize. Listen only to the super-informed and your inner guidance system.

Trying to figure it all out...

BSue's Wedding

2008-09-09T11:06:00.000-04:00

The weathermen were right. The day was humid and rainy (the worst combo for what I hoped to be a good hair day), but the wedding itself was breathtaking. Someone described B as angelic and that she was. She looked absolutely gorgeous and she and her hubby were glowing. All my love to both xo.

Angels - more to come:

Hope Floats

2008-08-31T21:10:00.000-04:00

"Beginnings are scary, endings are usually sad, but it's the middle that counts the most. Try to remember that when you find yourself at a new beginning. Just give hope a chance to float up. And it will."

Just the movie I needed today. Happy Labor Day, all!

Mermaid Wedding

2008-08-25T11:45:00.000-04:00

Saturday was one of my best friend's bachelorette parties in Portsmouth, NH. It was a crazy 24 hours and I couldn't have asked for a better time or better people to be with.

I will give my best David Letterman Top 10 list of the festivities, but most will be personal jokes of the evening - here we go:

10. Anatomically correct penis cakes
9. The cigar roller - whoever tries this, report back
8. The dirty seagull - if a guy is reading this and knows what that is, shame on you
7. Ginger bean soup - this would not have been as funny if we weren't blacked-out
6. Tiger/Bruce/Hu G...
5. The virgin dance - no words, just a propelled bracelet
4. Dollar bill/picture game - one reason why the pictures of the night are horrifying
3. Alizé - straight up passion
2. A rediculous amount of mermaids
1. The running man turned into a swift kick to the balls - guy never saw it coming

Love you all, can't wait for the 26th!

Weddings Galore

2008-08-18T15:43:00.000-04:00

It's official - my cousin and his girlfriend are ENGAGED! I've known for a few weeks and I've been having the hardest time keeping it a secret. He popped the question on Friday night and we celebrated all weekend - maybe I celebrated enough for the both of them, but hey, I'm excited.

AND I'm in the wedding!

The Pill = Bad Relationships?

2008-08-14T08:21:00.000-04:00

A recent study found that birth-control pills could screw up a woman's ability to sniff out a compatible mate. And they really mean sniff - I guess the body sends out aromatic molecules that indicate genetic compatibility.

In my life, this makes perfect sense.

My guy choice while on the pill resulted in:

My guy choice while off the pill:

For all of you girls out there looking for Mr. Right, maybe it's time to take a break from BC. It's worked for me so far.

Pandora

2008-08-12T11:07:00.000-04:00

For those of you that haven't tried Pandora Radio, I highly recommend it. I just started using it this morning and I've become a fast fan.

The program pretty much designs a personalized radio station based on your fave tunes. All you have to do is choose one of your favorite songs or artists and it will quickly find songs with musical similarities to your choice.

This not only helps you find new songs you might not be familiar with, but also helps the day fly by because you aren't constantly scanning through your iPod to find just the right track.

Frank - thanks for sending this my way :)

Meet The Parents

2008-07-31T10:28:00.000-04:00

No, not the Ben Stiller movie.

Real life, ME, meeting the parents, TOMORROW. I'm hoping for a casual meet-and-greet, but this is big. Wine will help.

More updates to come - OW OW OW!

Theme Song

2008-07-29T13:15:00.000-04:00

What is your "song"? You know, the song that always puts you in a good mood and the one you don't mind belting out in the car even with the person in the next lane staring at you like you're insane.

I can think of a handful that I can blast on my iPod when I'm struggling through the end of the day at work or if I'm having a terrible day. Currently, these are my top faves in no particular order:

1. Got My Mind Set On You - George Harrison
2. I Wanna Be Rich - Calloway
3. No Surrender - Springsteen
4. Oh Sherrie - Steve Perry (always)
5. Sweetheart - Mariah Carey

What are yours? I need some new material for my iTunes. Donchita, I know you have a few special karaoke jams you can share.

Today Is My Friday

2008-07-23T08:20:00.000-04:00

I'll be on Vineyard time until Sunday. No cell, no email, just beach. And maybe an excessive amount of wine, but hey, it's vacation.

Firepit Anyone?

2008-07-21T11:09:00.000-04:00

I'm in the market to buy a firepit for our backyard. With friends coming over Saturday night, I thought it would a nice addition to a night of drinking.

So I conned N into coming with me to find one. I used the ploy, "I need to use your truck, a firepit won't fit in my matchbox of a car." He graciously agreed to join :) So he and I spent the day together going in and out of the likes of Home Depot and Lowes. Not one firepit to be found. Seriously?

I've asked around and I guess they are sold at Target and the Christmas Tree Shop. The two places we didn't check. Even though we didn't find one, everything worked out - good day, good night and we borrowed our neighbor's firepit. It was a hit.

Hilarious

2008-07-15T14:21:00.000-04:00

This article really made my afternoon. The list is a year old, but has some of the best celeb baby names I've ever heard.

Fifi Trixibell?
Diva Muffin?
Heavenly Hiraani Tiger Lily?

This was sent to me for a good laugh, but this is real life for these people. I know the parents are famous, but that doesn't mean their kids won't be tortured in school. For the attention of the media, these parents are setting their kids up for disaster. Goodluck in the future, Fifi.

What is the most rediculous baby name you've heard of?

"A Breath Of Fresh Air"

2008-07-14T08:23:00.000-04:00

And that it was. Things are really starting to look up and I can't wait to see what happens next.

Another Day At The Office

2008-07-10T07:37:00.000-04:00

Yesterday, I had a great conversation with a few girls from work. Below I've included the highlight of the discussion.

When talking about the possibility of dating a 29-year-old:

#1: Guys are so immature in general, go for an older guy. There are so many reasons why older guys are better...
#2: (With a nonchalant shrug) Yeah they make more money than younger guys.

And there you have it. A perfect/honest response. We were all in agreement, even one of my male co-workers. I'd like to think he really agreed or maybe it was because he was surrounded by 10 women, but either way, might as well give it a shot.

Madonna and A-Rod?

2008-07-07T20:21:00.000-04:00

Say it ain't so! I'm patiently waiting to hear that the Yankee and the Material Girl are just friends. But either way, the truth always comes out.

Is it really that difficult to be monogamous? Or honest for that matter? It shouldn't be. I hope love prevails in this case, but as I'm told, "everything happens for a reason."

Why I Love The 4th Of July

2008-07-03T11:46:00.000-04:00

Fireworks. And only white fireworks. Not to say there is something wrong with the red or purple or blue ones, but they definitely don't pack the punch white fireworks do. They are magical.

You would also think that based on how much I despise thunder storms that I would have a problem with the deafening sound they make. But I'm totally fine with going to a park, crowded with 1,oo0s of people and not being able to hear what someone is saying next to me just for the simple pleasure of a couple bursts of light in the sky.

For those reading, have a happy and safe holiday!

Happy Birthday, AL!

2008-07-01T10:53:00.000-04:00

You deserve only the very best - enjoy your day xoxo

Angel Shower

2008-06-29T19:27:00.000-04:00

Today was BSue's Wedding Shower and it was beautiful. I'm pretty jealous because the perfect couple now owns half of Crate & Barrel. Aside from the Happily Ever After part, I can't wait for the day I can register for all sorts of fabulous gifts. Much love to the lovebirds.

Hello Angels xoxo

In The Words Of Kenny Rogers

2008-06-24T08:12:00.000-04:00

"You got to know when to hold em', know when to fold em', know when to walk away."

Sometimes it's through an omen, or sometimes you just have a gut feeling, or sometimes, like in this case, the information hits you like a ton of bricks.

Either way, it hurts like hell. But I believe in karma.